10 Best Ways To Have A Better Relationship

Relationships are difficult, but they can also be the most rewarding parts of life.

The relationships you forge with friends, family members, and romantic partners shape who you are as a person.

The stronger your relationships are, the better off life is for yourself!

If you’re in a romantic relationship or looking to start one soon then these top ten ways will help guide you along on how to have an even more fulfilling romance together:

1. Give 100% of Your Attention

It’s difficult to have a conversation or listen to your partner when you’re dividing attention between them and a screen.

Put down the phone, turn off that TV show on Netflix, close those laptop tabs- even if they are for work.

Listen to what they’re saying, ask questions, and engage. When you give your partner your full attention not only do you learn things, you also may prevent problems down the road.

Giving your full attention to the people in front of you is not just about listening. It’s also a sign that they matter to you and shows them how much you care.

2. Show Appreciation

Saying thank you is so simple and so powerful.

When your partner does something that you appreciate, don’t forget to tell them.

For example, they make breakfast or clean up the dishes, thank them. If they take out the garbage, thank them. If they make dinner reservations at your favorite restaurant, express your appreciation.

Consider also, that when you have a criticism, sandwich that feedback between two positive comments. 

3. Engage in Discussions 

One of the best ways to maintain a relationship is by staying engaged in each other’s lives.

Talk about what is going on in the world. Discuss current events, books, movies, hobbies, music, and other things of interest.

Sharing hobbies such as cooking for one another can be rewarding because you get to learn more about your partner while bonding over something enjoyable like preparing food. Talking on this level will make both partners feel closer than ever before!

Talk about things that are beyond your home life and relationship. Expand your knowledge about one another. Learn about each other.

Talking on this level helps you each remember why you fell in love and it keeps the relationship active and engaging.

4. Explore Together

What do you want to learn or try?

What about your spouse or partner?

What do they want to learn or try?

Why not take a class or have an adventure together?

For example, maybe one of you wants to learn to rock climb and the other wants to try their hand at a cooking class. Take those classes together.

Learning together expands your relationship and people bond when they go through challenges together. You can help one another succeed and grow. 

5. Have Other Friends Too

Having friends outside of your relationship helps you stay true to who you are.

Your life shouldn’t revolve around your partner.

Rather, remember that it is a partnership and each one of you is an individual with your own thoughts, needs, goals, and friends.

You’ll be a better spouse and a happier person. It’s important, of course, to encourage your partner to have friends outside of your relationship. 

6. Do Something for Your Partner (Daily)

Small things make a big difference. And doing something nice for your partner not only shows them how much they’re appreciated, but it also brings you closer together, and it makes you feel good too.

So, what can you do? Pour them a cup of coffee. Make them breakfast in bed. Fill their gas tank. Surprise them with dinner out. Bring them flowers, or chocolate, or give them a massage.

Leave a note on their car seat, in their lunch, or send them a loving text during the day. Small tokens of your love and appreciation help you stay strong and connected to one another. 

7. Be Intimate

Sex brings people closer together.

When you’re intimate, hormones are released that bond you to one another.

The intimacy brings you together on a deeper emotional level too.

Sex is one of the benefits of a relationship and it’s a nice way to spend quality time together. Plus, it’s good for your health and the health of your loved one.

Positive and healthy chemicals are released in your body when you are intimate. So, set the mood. Turn on the Barry White, light a candle, and share some time talking, touching, and bonding. 

8. Share the Workload

From sex to chores, both are important to a relationship and studies have shown that women find their partners to be more attractive when they share in the household chores.

Great, right? Both of you should sit down and devise a workload that feels equal and fair.

Then, both of you should follow through on your responsibilities. It prevents resentments and helps your household and relationship run more smoothly. Plus, it could lead to more intimacy; so, that’s a bonus. 

9. Ask for What You Want and Need

No one can read minds and it’s unfair to expect your significant other to be able to know what you want or need.

It doesn’t matter what the topic of discussion is or what area of your life you have needs or wants, you must be honest and express them. Sure, it can feel awkward sometimes to tell your partner what you need. But if the shoe were on the other foot, you would want your spouse to speak up, right? 

So be fair.

If you need some quiet time, speak up.

If you need more, or less, intimacy, speak up.

If you need them to do more around the house or if you need to talk about something important, let them know. You owe it to your partner and to yourself to be upfront and honest. 

10. Expect and Support Change

People change. It’s a mistake to expect that either you or your spouse will remain the same person your entire life. You will change.

That can be a good thing or a bad thing. If you expect to change and you support your partner to grow and evolve, then it’s good.

You can grow and evolve together. Here’s the caveat, you cannot change your partner. You can only change yourself.

Keep that in mind and you’ll have a better relationship. 

Your relationships matter to you. Spend time working on them.

Show your partner how much they matter to you. Work to make your relationship as strong and positive as it can be. 

Let me know in the comments how your working on your relationship